Telling your partner that you would like it a little slower, much faster, towards the left, closer to the right, less pressure or with more tongue, can be terrifying. You don’t want to criticise or hurt their feelings, emasculate them or sound too demanding.
But great sex, sex that will rock your world, only happens when your partner knows what you want. And most of the time the only way they’ll know… is if you speak up and say something.
So before I get into some great (and important) communication techniques I want to first make a point here:
YOUR pleasure is YOUR responsibility
A lot women believe that it is up to their partner to magically decipher the best way to kiss, stroke, touch and make love to them and provide them with endlesss sexy bliss. This just ain’t the truth! Making love is a team sport and as the owner of your body, you need to take full responsibility for helping achieve what you desire. The place to start… get to know you! Learn what your body responds to, how to turn youself on and how you like to experience pleasure.
It will be a lot easier to help someone steer your boat when you’re already the captain.
Knowing a little more about what you like, will make it easier the next time you’re having sex, to ask for what you want.
For awesome ways to communicate during sex click on the video below!
