Today we are talking about the four biggest sex myths that may be stealing your bedroom bliss and making you crazy with comparisonitis!
These four little critters born from by our ridiculously unrealistic, limited and deeply flawed cultural view of sexuality and usually promoted through the mainstream media (and porn) are making many of us question our relationships, bodies and the quality of our sex lives.
So let’s get a few things straight. Because nothing makes me angrier than this idea that sex “should be” a perfect 5-star performance, 4 nights a week, consisting of multiple orgasms and 52 different sexual positions. And if your intimate life is falling short of that, well, you’re probably sexually defective or not that sexual or sexy or your crap in the sack….
What a load of baloney!
Not only does this idea of sexuality set us ALL up to feel inadequate, it reduces sex to something you do rather than something that comes from within you.
We are left full of expectations of what our sexual life “should” look like, how we “should” have sex and what our bodies “should” do. We should all over ourselves, our partner and our relationship.
Nothing sucks the joy right out of sex faster than the tension of expectation.
When we take something that is complex, unique and ever changing and make sex just another thing to do right, we squash the magic that comes from exploring our rich, dynamic and highly personalised sexuality instantly.
So let’s bust a few of these bliss limiting myths that are floating around out there!
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I would love to hear which myth you personally feel pressure from the most in the comments below.
Sending you love!